Upstanders: How Hadara Ishak of Jewish Future Promise Is Standing Up Against Antisemitism, Racism, Bigotry, and Hate
Be empathetic: Cultivate empathy and compassion towards others, especially those who may be targets of hate or discrimination. Put yourself in their shoes, listen actively, and offer support and solidarity. For example, show empathy towards victims of hate crimes and support initiatives that promote diversity and inclusion in your community.
An upstander is the opposite of a bystander. A bystander is someone who stands by while others are being bullied, maligned, or mistreated. An upstander is someone who stands up to protect and advocate for the victim. We are sadly seeing a surge of hate, both online and in the real world. Many vulnerable minorities feel threatened and under attack. What measures are individuals, communities, and organizations taking to stand up against Antisemitism, Racism, Bigotry, and Hate? In this interview series, we are talking to activists, community leaders, and individuals who are Upstanders against hate, to share what they are doing and to inspire others to do the same. As part of this series, we had the pleasure of interviewing Hadara Ishak, President & Chief Operating Officer, Jewish Future Promise.
Before coming to Jewish Future Promise, Hadara had a career in both the for-profit and not-for-profit worlds. She was an entrepreneur, building Jan Micolle into a successful women’s clothing manufacturing company. After Jan Micolle, she was vice president of distribution and a co-producer at Imagination Productions, an independent not- for- profit documentary film company focused on the Jewish world.
Thank you so much for doing this with us! Before we dive in, our readers would love to get to know you a bit better. Can you tell us your “Origin Story”? Can you tell us the story of how you grew up?
Growing up on a farm in Ganot Hadar, Israel, shaped my worldview profoundly. I am the daughter of a Holocaust survivor, a heritage that carries immense weight and responsibility. My childhood was marked by diversity and acceptance, as my closest friend was a Bedouin. Together, we reveled in the simple joys of riding horses, climbing trees, and swimming, transcending cultural barriers effortlessly. Living in Israel, I learned early on the importance of peaceful coexistence. Despite the richness of our shared experiences, I also witnessed the stark contrasts in customs among Arab, Bedouin, and Israeli communities. These differences, while at times challenging, strengthened my resolve for unity and understanding. My upbringing instilled in me a deep-rooted belief in acceptance and peaceful coexistence. It is this ethos that guides my actions today as I strive to combat antisemitism and foster a world where diversity is celebrated and respected.
Can you share a personal story of how you experienced or encountered antisemitism, racism, bigotry, or hate? How did that experience shape your perception and actions moving forward?
During the Yom Kippur War in 1973, I encountered the stark reality of antisemitism and the deep-seated hatred directed towards Israel and Jews. As the conflict unfolded, I found myself taking shelter with the women and children of my village while our men defended our homeland. It was a moment of profound realization, a stark awakening to the pervasive animosity that exists towards Israel and the Jewish people. The experience of being huddled together, waiting anxiously as the sound of war echoed in the distance, left an indelible mark on my perception. It was a sobering revelation of the depth of antisemitism and prejudice that we face simply for our identity and heritage. Unfortunately, the Yom Kippur War in 1973 was not the only time I or my family have experienced conflict. Each generation in my family has had to grapple with the loss of brothers, cousins, and close loved ones, with each death marked by violence. Yet, amidst the seemingly never-ending ongoing strife and fight, I have witnessed the strength and unity of our community, a resilience that has become a cornerstone of my commitment to combatting antisemitism.
Can you describe how you or your organization is helping to stand up against hate? What inspired you to take up this cause?
At the Jewish Future Promise, we are deeply committed to standing up against hate by fostering meaningful conversations within families. Our mission centers on the idea of connecting generations through discussions about family history, Jewish values, and shared stories. We believe that by understanding where we come from, we can build a strong sense of identity and pride, essential components in combating antisemitism. What inspires me most about this cause is the transformative power of knowledge and connection. When individuals and families engage in dialogue about their heritage and values, they not only strengthen their own sense of self but also contribute to a resilient and united community. By instilling a deep understanding of who we are and where we come from, we equip ourselves with the tools to confront antisemitism and prejudice with strength and determination. Our work at Jewish Future Promise is rooted in the belief that education and awareness are key to creating a world free from discrimination and bigotry. Through our initiatives and advocacy, we strive to empower individuals and families to embrace their identity, celebrate their heritage, and stand tall against antisemitism, ensuring a brighter and more inclusive future for generations to come.
Can you tell us the most interesting story that happened to you since you began your work as an Upstander?
One of the most impactful experiences since I began my work at the Jewish Future Promise was during a meeting with a woman in Atlanta. Through our conversation, she expressed a deep desire to leave a legacy letter for her children and grandchildren, as she didn’t have one from her own parents and grandparents. However, she struggled to know where to start and how to encapsulate a lifetime of experiences and values in a single letter. It became clear that many individuals, regardless of age, face the challenge of articulating their personal narrative and moral commitments to future generations. It’s not just about recounting events; it’s about conveying the essence of who we are, our values, and our enduring connection to our peoplehood. Through her relationship with Jewish Future Promise, this woman was able to craft a heartfelt legacy letter that not only captured her life journey but also imparted invaluable wisdom and insights to her family. I firmly believe that our stories are the most precious legacy we can leave behind. While material possessions may fade, our narratives endure as a beacon of identity, resilience, and continuity for future generations. It’s a privilege to facilitate these conversations and empower individuals to preserve their stories for the benefit of their families and communities.
Could you share an inspiring story that demonstrates the impact your efforts have had on an individual or community?
One of the most inspiring stories that exemplifies the impact of our efforts is creating the Jewish Youth Promise, which revolves around young Jewish individuals who are seeking to maintain a profound connection to their faith and heritage through our platform. Many young Jews today strive to have a deeper understanding of their personal identity and build upon their positive relationship with their faith. By providing a platform for meaningful engagement, dialogue, and education, Jewish Youth Promise became an opportunity for young Jews to educate themselves and hold themselves accountable to partake in their Jewish culture and faith. This sparks a sense of belonging within the Jewish community. It reinforces our belief in the power of education, community, and empowerment for young Jews, ensuring a vibrant and connected future for generations to come.
In your opinion, why do you think there has been such a surge of antisemitism, racism, bigotry, & hate, recently?
In my view, the recent surge in antisemitism, racism, bigotry, and hate is not a new phenomenon but rather a manifestation of enduring prejudices and misconceptions that have plagued societies for centuries. Antisemitism, in particular, has persisted throughout history, rooted in negative tropes and stereotypes about the Jewish community.
Although Jews and Israelis are often stereotyped as privileged and powerful, the reality is far more complex. Throughout history, each generation has faced and continues to confront violence, death, and threats to their existence. From historical persecutions to modern-day conflicts, the Jewish and Israeli communities have endured immense challenges that have left deep-rooted scars and trauma. Jewish families have often been fractured and torn apart by violence and persecution.
One factor contributing to the perception of a surge in hate is the proliferation of platforms and channels that amplify and spread hateful ideologies. The rise of social media and digital communication has provided a broader stage for individuals and groups to express and disseminate their prejudices, reaching audiences globally and instantaneously. It’s crucial to recognize that while these platforms may amplify hate, they do not create it. The underlying biases and prejudices that fuel hate have existed long before the digital age. The challenge lies in addressing the root causes of intolerance and bigotry.
Are there three things the community/society/politicians can do to help you address the root of the problem you are trying to solve?
Education plays a pivotal role in addressing the root causes of hate and bigotry. First and foremost, I believe that integrating comprehensive Holocaust studies into school curricula is essential. This should not be a mere paragraph but a dedicated chapter, taught not just once but repeatedly throughout junior high and high school. By ensuring that young people learn about the Holocaust in-depth, including the broader context and impact beyond the Jewish community, we can foster empathy, understanding, and a commitment to combatting all forms of antisemitism.
Secondly, there should be legal repercussions for individuals who spread misinformation and hateful rhetoric. This includes holding accountable those who use inflammatory language or make false statements, especially when it comes to issues like genocide or incitement of violence. Government leaders, in particular, should be held to high standards in their language and actions, as their words carry significant weight and influence public discourse.
Lastly, fostering community dialogue and collaboration is crucial. We must work together across diverse backgrounds and perspectives to promote tolerance, respect, and mutual understanding. This includes engaging with community leaders, educators, and policymakers to develop and implement strategies that promote inclusivity, diversity, and the rejection of hate in all its forms.
What are your “5 Things Everyone Can Do To Be An Upstander”? If you can, please share a story or an example for each.
- Educate yourself on the issues via a reputable source: Take the time to learn about historical and current issues affecting marginalized communities, including antisemitism. For example, read books, attend lectures, or watch documentaries from credible sources to deepen your understanding.
- Speak with your Jewish friends about their experiences: Engage in meaningful conversations with Jewish friends and acquaintances to gain insights into their experiences, challenges, and perspectives. This fosters empathy and helps build stronger bonds within diverse communities.
- Stamp out hate when you see it: Don’t stay silent in the face of hate speech or discriminatory actions. Speak up and take action to challenge and confront bigotry whenever and wherever you encounter it. For instance, if you witness antisemitic remarks, address them directly and educate others about their harmful impact.
- Voice your opinion to public representatives: Advocate for policies and initiatives that promote inclusivity, tolerance, and the protection of marginalized groups. Contact your elected officials, attend town hall meetings, and participate in grassroots advocacy efforts to make your voice heard on important issues.
- Be empathetic: Cultivate empathy and compassion towards others, especially those who may be targets of hate or discrimination. Put yourself in their shoes, listen actively, and offer support and solidarity. For example, show empathy towards victims of hate crimes and support initiatives that promote diversity and inclusion in your community.
How do you handle the emotional toll that comes with being an Upstander?
I draw strength from my family’s resilience and survival through some of history’s darkest chapters. My father’s escape from the Holocaust, my grandmother’s survival through Pogroms, and my personal experiences, including surviving the attacks during the 1973 Yom Kippur War, serve as powerful reminders of endurance and determination. Whenever the burden feels overwhelming, I reflect on the courage and perseverance of my family, the current hostages being held by Hamas, and the families of the hostages waiting to embrace their loved ones again. If they could navigate through such adversity and emerge stronger, then I am inspired to continue standing up against hate and bigotry. Their experiences instilled in me a sense of purpose and drive, reminding me that even in the face of challenges, progress is possible. The history of my family and the State of Israel exemplifies resilience and the ability to overcome immense obstacles. Their stories fuel my resolve and reaffirm that I, too, can endure the emotional toll of being an Upstander, knowing that each effort contributes to a brighter and more compassionate future.
If you were in charge of the major social media companies, what would you do to address the hate on the platforms? Could you share specific strategies or policies that you believe would be effective in addressing hate on social media platforms?
As an Upstander and advocate against hate, if I were in charge of the major social media companies, I would prioritize implementing strategies and policies to address hate speech on their platforms. One key approach would be to differentiate between freedom of expression and hate speech. While everyone should have the right to voice their opinions, even if they differ from mine, there must be clear boundaries when it comes to inciting harm or promoting hate. Social media companies should actively support efforts to hold individuals accountable for hate speech by advocating for legal consequences and cooperating with law enforcement authorities when necessary. This sends a strong message that hate speech is not tolerated and has real-world consequences. Social media companies should also prioritize educating users about the impact of hate speech and the importance of respectful online discourse. This could include initiatives such as awareness campaigns, educational resources, and partnerships with organizations dedicated to combating hate and promoting tolerance.
How would you answer someone who says: “Hate speech is permitted under the US Constitution. Why are you so worried about permitted, and legal speech?”
I would respond by acknowledging that freedom of speech is a fundamental right protected under the US Constitution, and it is indeed crucial to uphold this right. However, it’s essential to recognize that hate speech, while technically permitted under the law, can have severe and detrimental effects on society. Hate speech goes beyond the mere expression of opinions; it is designed to dehumanize, vilify, and incite violence or discrimination against individuals or groups based on their race, religion, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, or other characteristics. When left unchecked, hate speech can create a toxic environment that fosters division, fear, and animosity within communities. The danger of hate speech lies in its potential to fuel real-world violence and harm. History has shown us time and again that hateful rhetoric can lead to acts of discrimination, harassment, and even violence against marginalized groups. It can also contribute to the erosion of mutual respect, tolerance, and inclusivity in society. As responsible members of society, we have a moral obligation to speak out against hate speech, promote respectful discourse, and work towards creating a more inclusive and equitable world for everyone.
Are you optimistic that we can solve this problem in the United States? Can you please explain what you mean?
Yes, I hold onto optimism that we can confront and alleviate the problem of hate speech and bigotry in the United States. However, I recognize that this journey is neither short nor easy. It’s a path filled with challenges, complexities, and deep-seated issues that demand our sustained commitment and effort. My optimism is anchored in the belief that education is a powerful tool in addressing the roots of antisemitism and discrimination. By educating ourselves and others about the historical context and pervasive nature of hate, we can begin to unravel its grip on society and foster a culture of empathy, understanding, and inclusivity. Yet, I am also acutely aware of the daunting road ahead. It requires not only education but also active advocacy, community engagement, and a collective willingness to confront difficult truths and challenge harmful norms. It calls for introspection, dialogue, and a commitment to upholding the values of respect, dignity, and equality for all.
What advice would you give to someone who wants to become an Upstander but doesn’t know where to start?
If you want to become an Upstander but feel unsure of where to begin, my advice is simple yet powerful. Begin by reaching out to your local Jewish community or relevant organizations and inquire about ways you can get involved. Whether it’s volunteering, participating in advocacy initiatives, or supporting educational programs, your community can provide valuable guidance and opportunities to make a meaningful impact. One of the most critical aspects of being an Upstander is understanding your personal ‘Why.’ What drives you to stand up against hate and discrimination? Is it your values, your experiences, or a deep-seated belief in justice and equality? Identify your ‘Why’ and hold onto it tightly. Let it serve as a guiding force that fuels your dedication and perseverance in the face of challenges.
In what ways can education be leveraged to combat antisemitism, racism, bigotry, and hate?
Firstly, education can provide historical context and awareness about the roots and consequences of antisemitism, racism, and bigotry. By teaching about past atrocities, such as the Holocaust and other genocides, education instills a sense of responsibility to prevent such atrocities from happening again. Secondly, education promotes respect for all individuals regardless of their background, religion, or ethnicity. By embracing multicultural perspectives and teaching about the contributions of diverse communities, education fosters a culture of acceptance and appreciation for differences. Furthermore, education equips individuals with the tools to recognize and confront hate speech and discriminatory attitudes. It encourages critical thinking, media literacy, and the ability to analyze information objectively, thereby empowering individuals to reject harmful stereotypes and misinformation.
Jews need to know their personal stories so that their worldview cannot be influenced.
Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?
My favorite life lesson quotes are, ‘Look at the glass half full’ and “If the sky is gray, we can still look to the sun for hope.” These quotes resonate deeply with me because they reflect my outlook on life. Despite facing hardships and challenges, I believe there are always positives that can emerge from difficult situations. Although the “sky” might be currently gray for Jews around the world, we will continue to look for the “sun.” Peace in Israel is our sun. Growing up, my family and community endured various struggles, including the aftermath of the Holocaust and ongoing tensions in the region. However, instead of succumbing to despair, we chose to focus on resilience, hope, and the strength of our community. This mindset has driven me to be an Upstander, standing up against hate, discrimination, and injustice. I am passionate about building a stronger, more united Jewish community and fostering understanding and acceptance among all people. By looking at the glass half full, I am reminded of the power of optimism, perseverance, and finding silver linings even in the darkest times. It’s a mindset that guides me in my journey as an advocate for social justice and a builder of bridges across diverse communities.”
Is there a person in the world, or in the US with whom you would like to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this, especially if we tag them.
If I could have a private breakfast or lunch with someone, it would undoubtedly be Steven Spielberg. I have immense respect for his talent, creativity, and contributions to the film industry. However, what intrigues me most is the opportunity to delve into a deeper conversation about the relationship between Jewish Hollywood figures and their outward support for the state of Israel, especially during challenging times, such as after the attack and murder of Israelis on October 7th. Steven Spielberg’s influence and platform are vast, making him a pivotal figure in shaping public perception and discourse. I would be interested to hear his insights, perspectives, and experiences regarding the intersection of art, identity, and advocacy for Israel. Understanding why some Jewish Hollywood figures may not have been as vocal or visible in their support for Israel during critical moments can provide valuable insights into the complexities and nuances of navigating public stances on political and social issues. By engaging in a candid and meaningful dialogue with Steven Spielberg, I believe we could gain a deeper understanding of how cultural figures can use their platforms responsibly and effectively to promote causes they believe in, including supporting the state of Israel during challenging times.
How can our readers further follow your work online?
To deepen your engagement with my work and discover the initiatives I’m passionate about, I urge you to explore the Jewish Future Promise and Jewish Youth Promise platforms. Our mission is clear: we strive to educate the Jewish community and inspire giving in a way that secures a Jewish future and that of Israel for generations to come. By visiting these platforms, you’ll gain insight into our dedication to preserving Jewish identity, fostering a sense of community, and instilling values that resonate across generations. However, you do not have to be Jewish to utilize our platforms; in fact, 25% of our promisers are non-Jews. This inclusivity highlights the vital role of non-Jews as important allies in preserving Israel and Judaism, fostering a sense of unity, understanding, and support across diverse communities. Through the spirit of giving Jewishly, we are not only shaping the future but also preserving the rich heritage and traditions that define us.
This was very meaningful, thank you so much. We wish you only continued success in your important work!
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