Connie Jo Sechrist Of Charming Stranger Films: 5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me When I First Became A Filmmaker
Interview with Guernslye Honorés
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As a part of our series called “5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me When I First Became A Filmmaker”, I had the distinct pleasure of interviewing Connie Jo Sechrist.
Connie Jo Sechrist is an accomplished American actress and Emmy® Nominated Producer from San Jose, CA. Her work has been recognized at prestigious festivals such as SXSW, Tribeca, and other academy qualifying festivals worldwide. She is well-known for her dynamic and complex roles in drama, action, and sci-fi genre films.
As a passionate advocate for mental health, Connie Jo has produced and starred in over 20 films that explore mental health and personal stories, with the goal of de-stigmatizing mental health issues and breaking down barriers. Her commitment to raising awareness about the prevalence of mental health problems and encouraging greater understanding and acceptance is evident in the impactful nature of her work.
In addition to her talents, Connie Jo continues to establish herself in many collaborative independent film groups around the world as a leader and mentor to other aspiring filmmakers.
Thank you so much for joining us in this interview series! Our readers would love to get to know you a bit better. Can you tell us a bit of the ‘backstory’ of how you grew up?
I grew up in a small town of Campbell in Northern California, alongside my single mother and older sister. My journey into the world of acting began when I was immersed into the theatre productions at Westmont High School. Initially, I had set my sights on enlisting in the Marine Corps post-graduation, where I excelled as one of the top students in JROTC. However, the events of 9/11 unfolded during my senior year, and by that point, my deep involvement in the world of theatre and drama had sparked a profound shift in my interests.
Can you share a story with us about what brought you to this specific career path?
A few years after I graduated from High School, my sister, then a film producer, provided the gateway to my first cinematic experience. I discovered my true calling in storytelling through joining her production as a casting director. Since that moment, I have been unstoppable in my pursuit of creating stories and movies have always held a special place in my heart. The first film I saw in a theater was Ghostbusters, and to this day, my ultimate favorite is The Goonies.
Can you share the funniest or most interesting story that occurred to you in the course of your filmmaking career?
Having spent over a decade in this industry, I’ve encountered a lot of funny and interesting moments. It’s challenging to single one out as each project is unique. One memory that stands out to me is a production where the stunt team executed a major scene, only to realize the camera wasn’t rolling. While the mishap wasn’t humorous in the moment, the irony of not recording it became a running joke — reminding us that even in the face of setbacks, the ability to find humor in the chaos is what makes these experiences unforgettable.
Who are some of the most interesting people you have interacted with? What was that like? Do you have any stories?
With many years of experience in the industry, I’ve had the privilege of engaging with a diverse array of individuals. One of my most personal and rewarding experiences was working as an assistant to the iconic James Hong for a brief period of time as he traveled to different Comic Con events. This offered me a unique opportunity to absorb insights from his wealth of experience and his ability to inject humor into any situation. Being in such close proximity allowed me to witness firsthand his genuine passion for the industry, approaching each day as if it were his last. This left a big impression on me and became a guiding principle in my own approach to leadership. I make it a priority to ensure that everyone working with me feels both taken care of and respected, regardless of their role. His influence has instilled in me the importance of fostering a positive and supportive working environment, which still continues to shape my interactions within the industry.
None of us are able to achieve success without some help along the way. Is there a particular person who you are grateful towards who helped get you to where you are? Can you share a story about that?
First and foremost, I owe much of who I am today to the unwavering love and support of my family and friends. Having supportive people in my life is a priority for me as it has played an important role in my personal growth.
On a professional level, I am deeply grateful to Cameo Wood for giving me the opportunity to work as a full-time producer at Charming Stranger Films. Beyond being a fantastic employer, Cameo has exposed me to a multitude of experiences across various productions. Her support and mentorship have been instrumental in propelling me to where I am in the industry today. Without her unwavering encouragement and guidance, my journey in filmmaking wouldn’t have reached its current heights. I am profoundly thankful for the experiences and I attribute much of my professional success to her belief in my capabilities.
Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?
Dream without fear
Love without limits
Live without regrets
Without knowing the origin, these three principles have become a source of my daily motivation. It serves as a constant reminder to pursue my dreams boldly, love unconditionally, and live a fulfilling life without being held back by the fear of failure. It means embracing challenges and seeing failure not as a setback but rather as a stepping stone to growth and learning.
I am very interested in diversity in the entertainment industry. Can you share three reasons with our readers about why you think it’s important to have diversity represented in film and television? How can that potentially affect our culture?
I think diversity in the entertainment industry goes beyond mere representation; it plays a vital role in enriching our culture, fostering understanding, and elevating the creative and economic dimensions of the field. By embracing diversity, the industry gains the power to influence societal perceptions, challenge biases, and actively contribute to the creation of a more inclusive and harmonious world.
What are some of the most interesting or exciting projects you are working on now?
After a decade in the industry, I find myself immersed in what I consider the most meaningful project of my career. “Echoes in the Dark,” is a short film that I not only wrote and directed but I also had the privilege of starring in. While I’ve worn various hats in my career, this marks my first writing and directing experience.
This project holds profound personal significance for me. It originates from a deep desire to comprehend and heal from depression. Growing up with a family history of mental health challenges, I’ve felt myself on the edge of that dark place at times and it truly does take a lot of mental strength to not fall in.
Having recently concluded principal photography, I am looking forward to delving into the editing phase. This project represents not just a cinematic endeavor but a personal journey toward understanding and shedding light on mental health, with the hope of making a meaningful impact on those who resonate with this story.
Which aspect of your work makes you most proud? Can you explain or give a story?
For me, the most rewarding aspect of being a filmmaker is the opportunity to create stories that make a real difference in the world. While I’m incredibly proud of the recognition my films have received, what truly drives me is the chance to address important social issues, particularly mental health through my work. Knowing that my art can impact people’s lives and contribute to important conversations about mental health is incredibly rewarding.
My role as a mentor in various independent film groups is another source of fulfillment. Being able to inspire and support aspiring filmmakers, helping them grow and pursue their dreams, is a gratifying part of my creative journey. It’s all about fostering a sense of community and collaboration within the industry.
What are your “5 things I wish someone told me when I first started” and why?
1. Embrace Failure as a Stepping Stone:
Filmmaking is extremely rewarding; but it’s not an easy road and it’s not all glitz and glamour. Understand that failure is going to happen and instead of giving up, view failure as an opportunity to learn and improve. Each setback is a step closer to success. It takes a lot of hard work, dedication and most importantly passion to be in this industry.
2. Network and Build Relationships:
Establishing strong connections in this industry is crucial. Networking not only opens doors to opportunities but also provides a support system of experienced individuals who can offer guidance and mentorship. I would not be where I am today in my career without my strong network of friends and colleagues. Their support, guidance, and collaboration have been instrumental in shaping my professional journey.
3. Continuous Learning is Key:
The learning journey doesn’t end with formal education or the start of your career. Stay curious and commit to continuous learning. The more adaptable and open-minded you are, the better equipped you’ll be to navigate changes in this industry.
4. Work/Life Balance:
Pursue what you are passionate about, but also be realistic. The film industry can be very demanding. Understand the realities of this industry, set achievable goals, and be prepared to adjust your plans as circumstances unfold and evolve. Prioritize your physical and mental well-being. Burning out can hinder your productivity and creativity. Establish a healthy work-life balance to sustain a fulfilling and sustainable career. Develop and maintain hobbies or interests outside of the film industry. Engage in activities you enjoy for a mental break. Trust me, life will be more fulfilling.
5. It’s okay to say no:
It’s crucial to recognize the power of saying no when necessary. You don’t owe anyone anything. You are the person who is going to be the most affected by the decisions you make. Know your self-worth. Establish clear boundaries. Understand the value of your time and expertise. Learn to say no to projects that don’t align with your goals or that undervalue your skills.
When you create a film, which stakeholders have the greatest impact on the artistic and cinematic choices you make? Is it the viewers, the critics, the financiers, or your own personal artistic vision? Can you share a story with us or give an example about what you mean?
In filmmaking, everyone involved makes important decisions, and how these decisions affect the artistic and cinematic aspects can vary depending on the project. Each person contributing to a project plays a crucial role, whether it’s getting money, capturing visuals, or making sure the right people are in the right jobs to convey the message. While the main star often gets the attention, the people behind the scenes directing and managing the shoot are just as valuable. Every person matters! As a filmmaker at Charming Stranger Films, I’ve successfully made multiple short films on tight budgets. Being the sole producer gives me more creative freedom, but as more people join, we have to consider everyone’s input.
You are a person of great influence. If you could start a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂
I would start of movement of empathy.
This movement would focus on fostering empathy and understanding among individuals and communities worldwide. The goal would be to encourage people to actively listen, understand diverse perspectives, and engage in kind acts.
It could include educational programs promoting empathy in schools, community events that bring people from different backgrounds together to share their stories, or campaigns encouraging kindness and empathy in daily interactions. The movement could aim to build bridges across divides, reduce prejudice, and create a more compassionate and inclusive world.
We are very blessed that some of the biggest names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might see this. 🙂
If I were to have breakfast or lunch with someone in the entertainment industry, it would undoubtedly be Christopher Nolan. As a passionate filmmaker, Nolan’s groundbreaking work in directing and storytelling has left an indelible mark on cinema. His ability to weave complex narratives, coupled with visually stunning cinematography, has always captivated me. I would love the opportunity to discuss his creative process, gain insights into how he approaches filmmaking challenges, and understand the philosophies that drive his work.
Nolan’s dedication to practical effects and his commitment to pushing the boundaries of traditional storytelling make him a true visionary in the industry. The opportunity to sit down with him would be a dream come true, offering a chance to learn from a master storyteller and gain inspiration for my own filmmaking journey.
How can our readers further follow you online?
Instagram: @conniejosechrist
Facebook: @ConnieJoSechrist
X: @conniejsechrist
This was very meaningful, thank you so much! We wish you continued success!
About the interviewer: Guernslye Honoré, affectionately known as “Gee-Gee”, is an amalgamation of creativity, vision, and endless enthusiasm. She has elegantly twined the worlds of writing, acting, and digital marketing into an inspiring tapestry of achievement. As the creative genius at the heart of Esma Marketing & Publishing, she leads her team to unprecedented heights with her comprehensive understanding of the industry and her innate flair for innovation. Her boundless passion and sense of purpose radiate from every endeavor she undertakes, turning ideas into reality and creating a realm of infinite possibilities. A true dynamo, Gee-Gee’s name has become synonymous with inspirational leadership and the art of creating success.
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